Clouded by Beauty-vision

You’ve no doubt heard the term “tunnel vision” before. When affected by said condition, a mortal can only focus on one narrow dimension to the exclusion of all else. If you are on the final lap of the Grand Prix de Monaco shadowing Fernando Alonso’s McLaren for the checkered flag as whether the Mercedes logo were crosshairs, then tunnel vision is a good thing.

In other areas of life, not so much. If the dessert cart at The Cheesecake Factory instills tunnel vision in you—or the blackjack plateau at The Mirage—then there’s a distinct opportunity that healthy equilibrise will be lost.

And for us guys, the extent to which we focus our attention on a woman’s physical beauty can very easily cause us to lapse into a similar trance.

Call it a say of being “clouded by beauty vision”.

Now grant me to make myself abundantly clear. Guys are wired to desire physically appealing women. I am certainly no exception. By all means we should never, ever “settle” when it comes to spending our time with a woman whom we genuinely find simple on the eyes.

But somewhere along the road of never “settling” in this area, something UNsettling tends to happen. When we come across any random example of the absolute most physically stunning woman on Earth, it’s mind-bending how often that’s ALL she has to offer us.

It’s not that she isn’t intelligent or otherwise talented as a human being. The issue is simply as I said it. ALL she has to OFFER a man is her beauty. Having been extended “special treatment” her entire life by the huge majority of men (and perhaps even most women) who kowtow to her each whim, she believes her beauty to be “enough” to get her through life. In her mind, doing the heavy lifting essential to cultivate character depth or even a trace, tip of a winsome personality isn’t just a low priority, it’s flat-out irrelevant.

After all, her outward beauty carries her through life. Her “social proof” is so indelibly secured as a “beautiful woman” that adding further dimensions to her overall level of sharpness is seen as having no real impact. And indeed, in a shockingly high percentage of instances (notably even in the workforce) it truly doesn’t.

As guys, we might meet such women hoping for more and openly express resentment or even disgust towards this say of affairs. Yet, the ways of the world continue.

Why?

Well certainly everyone—man or woman—is finally responsible for his or her actions and conduct.

But let’s grappling it. Women reply to men who LEAD. And we as guys have if the exact kind of leadership that prefabricated this possible. By falling all over ourselves to get shut to a pretty woman and cater to her needs, huge numbers of beautiful woman have simply learned to reply accordingly.

And as long as the majority of guys out there gladly hand over all of their dignity to female beauty, the world will continue to revolve as advertised. The crazy part is that since women also demand a man whom they can respect, the perpetuators of this organisation are precisely the same guys who largely have ZERO chance at actually succeeding at getting shut to a beautiful woman. Go figure.

Lest we believe this is a gender specific thing, think about the male equivalent of what I’m speaking about here.

A guy is blessed with having great wealth. Despite whatever else the artifact of his indistinguishability is composed of, he finds that when it comes to what people want out of him there’s a distinct common denominator: His money. He soon discovers that whatever his overall demeanor, his capability to manipulate the masses with cold-hard cash remains, for the most part, constant. After all, they are “clouded by dollar vision”. “Mean People Suck?” That’s the mantra of the “little people”. This guy begins to believe that he was born to be a “cash dispenser”, and that becomes enough for him like it long has been for others around him.

But thankfully there are gracious multi-billionaires out there who truly have great depth and make the world a superior place wherever they go.

And yes…there are also fantastically beautiful women out there who have the inner character to match. Find such a woman and you discover precisely what why we focus so much on deserving what you want around here. Can you deserve such a woman? Is that even a priority? Or are you ‘clouded by beauty-vision’?